Bachelor's parties

Xuxa · Jan 28th, 2012, 04:03 AM

What are your views on it? What are you ok with and what will you not accept?

Leopard · Jan 28th, 2012, 07:14 AM

I won't accept hookers, unless I'm there too

dizzy65 · Jan 28th, 2012, 15:23 PM

im not to comfortable with the strippers but that is it hehe

lesleyann · Jan 29th, 2012, 06:38 AM

We are not having hen/stag doo's but obv no hookers and at least no touching the strippers lol

Arlandria · Jan 29th, 2012, 06:52 AM

I don't mind if my oh has a stripper, as long as he don't touch and he knows his place that's fine.
The only rule i have said is 'just because it's your "last night of freedom" doesn't give you the right to cheat, if he does it's over. Simples!'

I don't think he would but I know his mates would be like "oh it's your last night blah blah blah!"

katherinegrey · Jan 29th, 2012, 15:48 PM

I won't accept strippers, lap dancers, hookers or anything of the sort, for me it's as bad as cheating, if my DF wants to look at and touch other women who're naked then he's not fully committed to me in my eyes. It would definitely be a deal breaker!

Hayley90 · Jan 30th, 2012, 08:33 AM

i dont really care what he gets up to on his stag, tbh he will probably just go paintballing naked like they did with one of his other army mates

im not keen on strippers, but if he wants to stare at a fake tanned pair of fake boobs for £200 thats his loss

i dont like male strippers, i would be sick at the sight of tan/muscles/thong. they make me feel ill.

we are going abroad for mine, so i will prob spend the time drunkenly dancing on a beach

lozzy21 · Jan 30th, 2012, 15:31 PM

I'd accept anything really, he'd never cheat so I wouldent need to worry about that.

Redhead84 · Jan 30th, 2012, 16:20 PM

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Originally Posted by lozzy21

I'd accept anything really, he'd never cheat so I wouldent need to worry about that.

I think this is very much how I see it. A relationship that is strong enough for marriage should mean, in my opinion, that any thoughts of one party cheating (physically, emotionally, however) should be far from both minds.

I will not care any more what Daniel gets up to on his stag night any more than I do on a normal evening that he goes out with his mates... And nor will he care what I get up to on my hen do - the chances of either of us cheating or upsetting the other are as likely as flight BA763 from Malaga landing on our front lawn so I don't ever think about it.

xxClaire_24xx · Jan 31st, 2012, 18:05 PM

anything goes really but peter knows in have insecurities about myself and body and he knows i would be upset if he went to a strip/lap dancing club he understands why too and i hate male strippers but he did say he wouldnt like me seeing them anyway x

Jan 28th, 2012, 04:03 AM	#1
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Jan 28th, 2012, 07:14 AM	#2
Leopard Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2011 Location: Australia Posts: 4,060	I won't accept hookers, unless I'm there too

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dizzy65 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2008 Location: BC canada Posts: 8,037	im not to comfortable with the strippers but that is it hehe

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lesleyann Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Peterborough, England Posts: 8,220	We are not having hen/stag doo's but obv no hookers and at least no touching the strippers lol

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Arlandria Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Happily stuck in a Twilight Book... Posts: 2,945	I don't mind if my oh has a stripper, as long as he don't touch and he knows his place that's fine. The only rule i have said is 'just because it's your "last night of freedom" doesn't give you the right to cheat, if he does it's over. Simples!' I don't think he would but I know his mates would be like "oh it's your last night blah blah blah!"

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Jan 29th, 2012, 15:48 PM	#6
katherinegrey Other Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: UK Posts: 2,318	I won't accept strippers, lap dancers, hookers or anything of the sort, for me it's as bad as cheating, if my DF wants to look at and touch other women who're naked then he's not fully committed to me in my eyes. It would definitely be a deal breaker!

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Jan 30th, 2012, 08:33 AM	#7
Hayley90 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Kent - UK Posts: 13,151	i dont really care what he gets up to on his stag, tbh he will probably just go paintballing naked like they did with one of his other army mates im not keen on strippers, but if he wants to stare at a fake tanned pair of fake boobs for £200 thats his loss i dont like male strippers, i would be sick at the sight of tan/muscles/thong. they make me feel ill. we are going abroad for mine, so i will prob spend the time drunkenly dancing on a beach

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Jan 30th, 2012, 15:31 PM	#8
lozzy21 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Teesside, Posts: 19,571	I'd accept anything really, he'd never cheat so I wouldent need to worry about that.

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xxClaire_24xx Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Kilbirnie, North Ayrshire, Scotland Posts: 2,901	anything goes really but peter knows in have insecurities about myself and body and he knows i would be upset if he went to a strip/lap dancing club he understands why too and i hate male strippers but he did say he wouldnt like me seeing them anyway x

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