As some of you know oxsarahxo sadly lost her baby girl Jessica Charlotte Reay hours after giving birth. We are arranging a star to be named after Jessica and a lantern for her resting place from all of us. We also thought it would be nice to make a contribution to Sarah & Matt so they can use it towards flower arrangements, head stone or resting place arrangements. If you would like to contibute please PM me for details. Wobbles (oxsarahxo cannot see this message - Please do not discuss this on the forum) | Welcome to BabyandBump's Breast & Bottle Feeding Forum - A support forum dedicated to liquid feeds. Covers breast and bottle feeding topics. Newborn feeding, formula, expressing and extended breastfeeding. This thread is called 'Breasts not changing' and is in our You And Your Family section. |
Jun 27th, 2008, 04:34 AM
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| Breasts not changing I am really hoping to bf my baby for at least a year, but reading all these pregnancy and baby books is starting to make me a little paranoid. From the beginning of the pregnancy I have been waiting for all these changes in my breasts that supposedly happen, but nothing! My breasts are still small, the areola is not any bigger or darker, my nipples haven't darkened at all... They're just very dry & itchy, which makes them uncomfortable to touch. Also I have quite short nipples, which my doctor said might make breastfeeding difficult.
So I'm starting to get a little worried...hopefully for no reason! Will I be able to breastfeed normally? Do some women just not have these obvious changes? What's going on?
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Jun 27th, 2008, 04:42 AM
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I think that you still have time. My nipples didnt turn into bulls-eyes until 33-ish week and I never had any other indication of them "working" until my milk actually came in on Day 4. So dont worry and the most important thing is that you're planning on BFing. |
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Originally Posted by Deise I think that you still have time. My nipples didnt turn into bulls-eyes until 33-ish week and I never had any other indication of them "working" until my milk actually came in on Day 4. So dont worry and the most important thing is that you're planning on BFing. | I was the same, don't worry. I don't think mine ever got any darker, and only got one cup size bigger while I was pregnant. It was only on about day 4 when I woke up looking and feeling as if I'd had an overnight boob job that I felt as if something was finally happening! My nipples never stuck out much either, but I'm still breastfeeding after nearly 4 months. Good luck x
Oh, and not saying yours is, but some doctors can be a bit clueless when it comes to breastfeeding - don't let that put you off or worry you when you start |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | yes dont worry to much theres stil time, for me the most dramatic change was after when they went up 2 cup sizes which i didnt expect, but mine did go slightly darker and a bit fuller whilst i was pregnant but everyone is different , you should still be able to breastfeed im sure xxxx |
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Jun 27th, 2008, 12:29 PM
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| Thanks, just what I was looking for...reassurrance  |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | Try not to worry. Although my breasts did get bigger during pregnancy- that was the only change I had. There is still time for your nipples to "poke" out. But if you are truly worried or just need reassurance, I would seek the advice of a bfing consultant now. If in fact your nipples are inverted or too short, there are things you can do prior to giving birth to try and correct it. But I agree with whom ever else said it, some docs are just clueless about bfing- so don't necessarily take their word for it. |
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I'm Currently Feeling: | I didn't have any changes in my breasts either, even after the baby was born. Like some of the ladies said, I started noticing changed in the size and my areolas etc. after baby was born and I had been feeding for a couple of days. Don't get discouraged!!  |
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| Ahh, glad to hear it. I hope my boobies will be up to the challenge, then  |
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