Believe it or not we've actually had sex for the first time! However I forgot that BF women have a little problem with dryness, so it was a bit painful, but we tried again and took a bit more time lol. I'm finding it all slightly surreal however, as I've got to try and keep Kaya asleep at the same time. So, all you co-sleepers, how do you manage to have a sex life and co-sleep with a newborn - especially one that won't go down?

try and get baby in a routine my little one since being born in june has been really good at going down and falling to sleep on her own she has a bath i put her down in her cot and she falls off to sleep herself which i wanted her to do its hard with a little one

cant offerr any advice but wanted to say well done you for getting your sex life back, i cant wait to be close to Jase again, feels like it will never happen at teh mo coz we are both so tired lol

IS the BF - Breast feeding? I didnt know that, so will that affect me too as i am expressing? if it doesnt stand for breast feeding then ignore i have just made myself look stupid lol

x

It is Layla lol x

I was wondering already 'bout how to co-sleep and have sex @ the same time, as we have Juleika in our bed sometimes as well (if she doesn't fall asleep on her own and wants to be held)

don't know if I could when LO is just lying right at the side of the act

I haven't ventured into sex yet and Lucy is 12 weeks past

Way too worn out just now lol x

I think that because we're both off work for the holidays, we've got a bit of energy. Plus we're learning how to keep Kaya asleep - ie feed her before she properly wakes up.

We have a spare room, we've only done it once in our own room while Noah was asleep.....it was hard being so quiet!!!

Could always use other rooms.....bathroom...kitchen floor, kitchen table He he........anywhere will do for me!!!

LMAO!

lol kitchen floor