thanks everyone for your replys me and phoebe are doing great shes a smashing baby sleeps well feeds great barely crys! its lovely.i'm still hurting and am getting really fed up of not being able to do what i want cos of my cut i've even been told its to far to walk my other girl to school so its doing my head, i can't even get out of the house without help cos of my steps outside i can't lift/bump the pram in and out for at least 6 weeks! anyway phoebe weighed in at exactly 6 lbs! and heres some pics too! shes the image of my other girl!