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Oct 21st, 2009, 22:34 PM
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#1 | | Having a little girl <3 Chat Happy BnB Member
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| Telling people
i found out today that im 4 weeks pregnant not quite sure how to tell people because im only 19 so not sure how they will react especially my parents...any suggestions?? | | | | Status: Online
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Oct 21st, 2009, 23:54 PM
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#2 | | LTTTC #1, Hopeful BnB Addict
Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: New York, USA
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| Not sure what you should say but wanted to wish you luck. xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 22nd, 2009, 01:02 AM
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#3 | | Its sticking Chat Happy BnB Member
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| same here, congrats! | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 22nd, 2009, 01:14 AM
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#4 | | Crunchy mama! Chat Happy BnB Member
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| congrats! i was 19 when i fell pregnant too, i just came out with it. they could see how happy i was so they were happy for me!  good luck! | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 22nd, 2009, 01:39 AM
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#5 | | Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member
Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: Switzerland
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| Well I suppose their first concern would be the stability of the parents' relationship, if there is one. You didn't mention this so not sure? If you plan to keep the little one, then I would say, just show them that you have thought through how you are going to take care of the baby, & don't cry when you tell them! You may be young but once you have decided whether to go through with it, focus on the positives & embrace the fact that you will be a younger mum!
And if you decided that abortion is an option you'd consider, remember that the most important thing is your happiness.
Whatever you choose should be the right choice for you, not other people! | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 22nd, 2009, 01:46 AM
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#6 | | Pregnant 3rd tri! Active BnB Member
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| Good luck hun! XO | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 22nd, 2009, 08:31 AM
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#7 | | Mummy to a Princess BnB Spammer Elite
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| i think be honest with your parents or close ones and tell me, i'm sure as long as your happy your parents will too. lots of luck. xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 22nd, 2009, 09:39 AM
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#8 | | LTTTC after MC #2 BnB Elite
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| congrats and good luck! | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 22nd, 2009, 14:23 PM
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#9 | | Month 12 TTC Chat Happy BnB Member
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Originally Posted by Kirsty90  i found out today that im 4 weeks pregnant not quite sure how to tell people because im only 19 so not sure how they will react especially my parents...any suggestions?? | Congrats!!! Tell them the truth because it will set you free. If you lie it makes it hard for them to get over the fact that you are BFP. So just be honest, they may be upset but in the end they will get over it. HTH, and good luck! | | | | Status: Offline
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Oct 22nd, 2009, 15:50 PM
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#10 | | Trying to conceive (TTC) Active BnB Member
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| congrats | | | | Status: Offline
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