I have found my savior!!!!
Started using Infacol a couple of days ago and last night he hardly cried at all, was really good, and again today a combo of that and his bouncy chair he has been really good, slept a lot and even when awake he has just gazed about.
Hopefull this isnt just a one off. Its nice to have peace in the house and actually be able to go on my laptop!