Helen

So I went out with my friend and some of her other friends that I'd not met before on Friday night. We're all chatting away and having a great time and then out comes the "so what do you do?" question. I've not had it since my maternity leave ended and I decided to be a proper SAHM.

Is it me? It felt really odd to say "I'm a stay at home Mum" and watch their faces freeze in horror.

Do people judge you if you don't work or am I being paranoid? Anyone else feel like this?

Munchkin

My mum used to reply with 'I'm a mobile dishwasher!'

Tasha

I found this as well, it almost as if its a dirty word now, or that we are lazy. Funny how it has completely swung round eh? I mean it use to be the other way round you went to work and people would freeze in horror, personally I love that there is the choice (although sometimes finaces mean tere isnt but hope ykwim).

xarlenex

I dont have this problem, because im young people assume that I stay at home and live off benefits. However, i work part time and do volunteer work..so Id kind of like people to ask me that question every now and then.

Becka

I hate that question too! I've stayed at home since my maternity finished after I had the twins, and they're coming up for 5, and I will continue to stay at home until this baby I'm expecting starts school, which will be another 5 years. I answer that I'm a stay at home mum, and I get looks as if I'm lazy or just having kids as an excuse not to have a job or to get extra money, which is totally not true as we don't get a lot anyway since my husband earns good money!

Tezzy

people think i sit watching Jeremy Kyle...

they say things like 'oh, that must be easy' and 'you must have loads of free time...'

Tilly

lol, clueless twits. People in this house seem to have the opinion that it's easy and I should clean up after everyone because im here all day and have more time, LOL!

Ignore it.. silly.

Samantha675

well I didn't work before I had my son, so I totally understand. Most of the time I could make people laugh by just answering 'oh I don't' to the what do you do question.

sweetsammi

I don't think u can win either way to be honest. If u dont work people assume your lazy,and sponging off the governement- when actually its just damn hard to find work to work around kiddies! Then if u work full time as a mum people think thats unfair on the baby and your slated just as bad..whats a mum to do? lol x

ab2401

I reply with the "stay at home mom" with pride.

I dont think there is anything wrong with working mothers and most have to..... and/or just enjoy working but I love my job and I'm not be ashame of it or care what others think. Some times I think my job is much harder the any 'ol 9-5 because I work 24/7.... and I wouldn't triad it for anything else.

IMO