Please can I have some pro's and cons to having kids close together? or leaving a bigger age gap???

u r not being serious?

You can bolt bawbag

I think close is nice, but give urself time to enjoy Lewis.

there is 1 yr between my 2.

i wish i had waited longer. i have not been able to enjoy Harley as i would like to. Dior is so overpowering and a handfull she takes all my time. she is also very entertaining doing a new thing every day i used to find myself forgeting about the quiet little newborn

its really hard to get out and about too, especially if you dont have a car,

but now Harley is 9months and Dior 20months its nice hey do play together and they love each other so much its really sweet.
i like the fact they will have each other through their growing up years etc.

My health visitor was talking about this yesterday Dionne and she said that two close together means they want to play the same things and are close.

I was only trying to help

My concern was to you as a friend and to enjoy Lewis, u r exhausted just now with lewis not sleeping etc, it will be more tiring with 2. And contrary to what is said, it does get harder...

in hinde sight it sounds all lovely having them close in age, but there is the other points you have to consider. If I remember correctly Dionne's 2 are fantastic sleepers.


My concern is ur sanity, nothing else. But I will shut up.. :wink:

theres 15 month between my 2

yes they are very close Harley like to hold the blocks and Dior will build them. and Harleys little activity table with flashing lights Dior still loves this stuff so they do loads together. i love lil things like in the mornings when they both wake i go into Dior first she is saying "Harley" so i take her in she runs up to his cot he pops his head over and just gives the biggest smile and squeel. but once they are 2&3 i recon i will have my hands full but Harley aint mobile yet so its not that hard

but i did walk in to find Harley with biro pen all over his face and Dior all over her hands???? wonder who done it