I bottle feed. Would've liked to breastfeed but it's HARD!!
I'm not going to argue with the facts that only 2% CAN'T but it's a hell of a higher percentage who find it tough. I have a friend who just puts them on the boob and away she goes, but she is lucky. I have found that women who find it easy can be a little smug and disparinging to others (alright, that's just my friend maybe :wink: )
It depends how much you want to do it. I know a member here really struggled but stuck at it and I admire her for it. I think if the Breastapo who patrol the hospitals were more realistic more women would be prepared to give it a proper go. Instead they just tell you it only hurts if the baby is latched on wrong.
Now I'm pretty confident that's cack. All nipples will hurt at first while they're getting used to being sucked on. It hurt me but I became so convinced it was because I was doing it wrong (and Stanley lost a lot of weight) I just quit.
Am going to try a lot harder next time though.
I don't judge anyone on how they feed their baby. HOWEVER (please no-one take offence), I do find it wierd when women don't even want to try. Ever. I know one girl who said her breasts were exclusively sexual objects for her OH. I found that a bit sad.
My OH was very supportive and said he was very jealous as he'd love to be able to breastfeed. AWWW!
