At first I was firm, thats how I got her to drink from the cup.. then she saw the bottle and got all whingy and back to square 1 we went. I've thought about throwing the bottles out but they're cups too.. got these:

(we just use a teat in it as the flow is much too fast) and some different ones. I've tried soft spout, hard spout, slow flow, faster flow.. nope, she won't give in! I know I need to be firm but I don't want her to not drink.. you think I should just not give her the milk if she won't accept it then? as id worry shes not getting enough calcium etc.