Me and Jase take it in turns to listen out for Coby, he still wakes up in the night for a feed. He mornaly wakes between 1 and 2am

Everytime its my night, he always goes back to sleep after i have given him his bottle. and then he doesnt wake up untill 7.30ish.

But when its Jases night, Coby wont go back to sleep after his bottle, he wants to stay up and play, Jase ends up having to take him down stairs for 2 hours. I told him he should wke me so i can help or take over but he wont (he is stubbon)

Any ideas on why he wont sleep for Jase? or how we can get him to go back to sleep?

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this is a tough one! Does Jase do anything different to you ? does he turn the lights on or talk to him ? how about trying to give him his bottle in his cot, prop him up with a pillow watch over him whilst he has it, but dont talk or make eye contact, keep the lights off, then take the bottle off him and quietly get back into bed (thats if you dotn already do this?)

Jase holds him different, thats the only thing i can think off, no lights on or talking.

Coby doesnt hold his own bottle yet, hes lazy so i cant give i to him in his cot, but the min he does i will!
thinking of getting the bottles with the holes in fo he can grab it better.

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sorry I couldnt help hun! Maybe try those bottles and go from there xx

Jamie used to be the same, i think when he saw me he thought "oh mum means buisness" (lol) but when he saw phil he would think " yay playtime!"

hmmm sorry not really helped you though

Sorry hun, can't really help

But Jack does exactly the same, he has started waking in night about 4/5am so i bring him downstairs with no lights or telly etc... and 9/10 times he will go back to bed for a couple of hours

but if Ant gets him up and does same routine he won't go back and comes full of life and wants to play, so is knackered when i am trying to get Em ready for school

I think it is a dad thing to be honest

maybe get a face mask of ur face and jase can where that when he feeds him ehheheeh

you are weird

u never know it may work hehehe p.s i was joking bythe way

probably he tried this "playing-thing" with you too, but you were more successfull and went to bed instead of playing with him.

He once won this "game" with his dad and now he insists on this "private-time".

It will be very hard - but he should lay him back to bed after his bottle and not go downstairs playing with him - especially since it works with his mum this way.