My OH already has a girl from a previous r/ship who he isn't very close to because they live in different countries but he loves her as much as his son on the way. He is really thrilled about having a boy though. I think just because he feels he can do boy stuff when he doesn't understand girl stuff. He did say though that he'd be happy with a girl and would feel really protective over her and then went on to tell me all the stuff he wanted to teach her. I think it just takes them a bit longer to realise they can be involved.
Know I may not have kids yet but just wanted to say that my OH wants a little girl rather than a boy! He's not into sports & stuff & wants a little daddy's girl!! I dont mind either way!!
he will be fine hun...OH wanted a boy deep down i think when I was pg but he has such a lovely bond with Ella he will happily sit and watch hours of Dora with her too! she is definatly his little princess!
by the way love the name very different I love names that are different!