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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:34 AM   #1
JRNH
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she's phoned social services on me!! (long story)


ever since me and oh moved to the house we're in now which he works very hard to keep us here to pay the rent and for the children to go to a good school we have had trouble with our neighbours on the one side.

we were warned by all the other neighbours that they were odd so we decided to keep ourselves to ourselves and just say hi if they said hi.

we went away for a week in the summer and when we came back another neighbour who we have become good friends with called round to say they had complained about us to the estate agent cos we were too loud....when we weren't even there!!

so we decided to just not speak to them altogether and then a few weeks later she posted me a letter saying it wasn't the noise of the children (i hadn't had the baby) it was the unhappy nature she was hearing and i was clearly stressed!! how rude!! my children and oh do not stress me out!! we went to the estate agents and they said to just carry on ignoring them and that she's not right in the head. she also sent other neighbours letters and accused us of turning the street against her, but all we've done is made friends with the other neighbours and they have all said they didnt like them before we moved in and thats why they warned us about them.

she emailed our landlord saying my children were rude, which i can assure they are not i always make sure they are polite and they share etc

and while all this is going on she was saying hello and good morning when she saw us!!

anyway....i had my baby on 19th feb and have only been home a few weeks and yesterday i recieved a letter saying an anonymous call had been made about the concern for the welfare of my children so someone was going to call out tomorrow and have a chat with me!!

i couldnt belive it i kept having to re-read the letter to make sure i was reading it right. i know its her who's done it because my surname is wrong on the letter and the postcode is on there, anyone who knows me or the children knows our surname and to know the postcode you'd have to live in the street. if it was from a health care professional or anything like that they would have the correct name!!

i asked around the other neighbours to see if they had concerns about the children and of course they all said no and that they were lovely and we were a lovely little family and they said i bet i can tell you who contacted them though which just confirmed my suspisions.

i had a terrible day yesterday being so upset as did my mum when i told her, i can't believe people can be so nasty to do something like that.

i know someone has to call out because a call had been made to them and all my friends and family have said they will see nothings wrong and know its a malicious call, but its such a terrible thing to do i mean i've only just had the baby!! after thursday if i see her i'm going to tell her exactly what i think of her after all she's said about us and this is just the final straw she's gone too far now putting us through this when she knows damn well she's wasting their time


 
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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:41 AM   #2
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how stressfull for you, the woman is obviously not right in the head, im sure social services will see that.


 
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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:43 AM   #3
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Wow I feel for you, some people are just down right rude these days, If I were you id just ignore her, Social services will soon see there is nothing to worry about. I just wouldnt give her the reaction she wants!


 
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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:47 AM   #4
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omg what a horrible person, when they call out to you they will see that your an amazing mum and that the caller is deluded!! *hugs*

id love to gove her a slap for you bless ya and you have only just had a new baby xxx


 
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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:52 AM   #5
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lmoa ur welcome to come down and slap her haha i'm only down the road from u in cardiff!!


 
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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:53 AM   #6
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really where?? lmao xxx


 
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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:53 AM   #7
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im living back in cardiff now hah xx


 
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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:55 AM   #8
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where abouts r u?


 
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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:56 AM   #9
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That is awful. I hope you get it sorted. I think that woman needs to be sectioned for the good of her health and the people around her!!

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Old Mar 17th, 2010, 06:57 AM   #10
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pentyrch not far lol xx


 
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