She's phoned social services on me! (long story) - Page 4

loz · Mar 17th, 2010, 19:07 PM

how horrible

flower01 · Mar 17th, 2010, 19:56 PM

what a bitch

jennifer89 · Mar 17th, 2010, 20:03 PM

erghh what a horrible woman!

**Vickie** · Mar 17th, 2010, 20:11 PM

how stressful

buttons1 · Mar 18th, 2010, 00:10 AM

That's awful of her. Big

to you having to go through that for no reason

sarahchops86 · Mar 18th, 2010, 04:02 AM

My best friend had a neighbour like that once, would accuse her of having parties and being too loud etc. She was a complete mental case she rang the police because of a party going on when there was no one in thehouse as my friend was off on holidays! The police turned up to an empty flat!
Things escalted when my friend became pregnant with the twins ( she already had a toddler at this stage) this crazy b*tch contacted social services saying my friend was selling drugs from the flat and running a BROTHEL!
Anyway obviously social services turned up and saw that obviously it was malicious and all the allegations were completely wrote off

billybump · Mar 18th, 2010, 04:18 AM

Just want to say good luck for today (not that you'll need it).

starbucks101 · Mar 18th, 2010, 04:58 AM

for today hun! Im sure everything will be fine, try to stay calm about it. Do you still have the letter she stuck through the door?

Offer the SS woman to speak to some of the neighbours your closest with if they want to know more, they probably wont but its proving you have proof your not a bad mum IYKWIM

Once they've written the claims off I would ask them to send you a report of the meeting you've had and go straight to the police this afternoon hun, Is she old?? I'd also give Adult Social Services a call and get some advice, she could be mentally ill or something.

xxxx

Eala · Mar 18th, 2010, 05:04 AM

Argh you poor thing! What a rotten thing to do!

There seem to be so many threads these days where people have made malicious calls to SS

If only it'd work, wouldn't it be nice if people couldn't remain anonymous, so if they called in and it was then found to be malicious, they'd be fined or charged or something! Would probably stop the genuinely concerned anonymous calls though, but darn, this makes my blood boil

New2Bumps · Mar 18th, 2010, 05:33 AM

I agree - I'd go straight to the police with SS report and file an official complaint for harassment against this woman so that it's on file.

Good luck for today - not that you will need it/

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buttons1 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Posts: 5,493	That's awful of her. Big to you having to go through that for no reason

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sarahchops86 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: N.Ireland Posts: 1,079	My best friend had a neighbour like that once, would accuse her of having parties and being too loud etc. She was a complete mental case she rang the police because of a party going on when there was no one in thehouse as my friend was off on holidays! The police turned up to an empty flat! Things escalted when my friend became pregnant with the twins ( she already had a toddler at this stage) this crazy b*tch contacted social services saying my friend was selling drugs from the flat and running a BROTHEL! Anyway obviously social services turned up and saw that obviously it was malicious and all the allegations were completely wrote off

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billybump Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: yorkshire dales Posts: 658	Just want to say good luck for today (not that you'll need it).

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starbucks101 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Norfolk Posts: 1,033	for today hun! Im sure everything will be fine, try to stay calm about it. Do you still have the letter she stuck through the door? Offer the SS woman to speak to some of the neighbours your closest with if they want to know more, they probably wont but its proving you have proof your not a bad mum IYKWIM Once they've written the claims off I would ask them to send you a report of the meeting you've had and go straight to the police this afternoon hun, Is she old?? I'd also give Adult Social Services a call and get some advice, she could be mentally ill or something. xxxx

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Eala Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Glasgow Posts: 7,228	Argh you poor thing! What a rotten thing to do! There seem to be so many threads these days where people have made malicious calls to SS If only it'd work, wouldn't it be nice if people couldn't remain anonymous, so if they called in and it was then found to be malicious, they'd be fined or charged or something! Would probably stop the genuinely concerned anonymous calls though, but darn, this makes my blood boil

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New2Bumps Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: May 2009 Location: England Posts: 3,839	I agree - I'd go straight to the police with SS report and file an official complaint for harassment against this woman so that it's on file. Good luck for today - not that you will need it/

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