She's phoned social services on me! (long story) - Page 3

JRNH · Mar 17th, 2010, 07:44 AM

thats what i felt like doing yesterday but we've worked so hard to live here and my partner doesnt want to move even though he works long hours to keep us here and the kids are settled and we havent done anything wrong she would probably do the same thing to the people who moved in after us if we moved lol

pinkbow · Mar 17th, 2010, 07:46 AM

WTF is wrong with some people

so sorry ur going thru this hun, but it will all be dropped but i agree file a harrassment claim on her!!

Abz1982 · Mar 17th, 2010, 08:04 AM

I would go and speak to the police as she is harassing you by continually contacting others about you. She is causing you emotional distress, and you will probably have your others neighbours behind you in this.

beancounter · Mar 17th, 2010, 08:18 AM

Don't worry, social services will see right through that, we had a neighbour like that when I was growing up- what a pain! Hope she moves!

emilyjade · Mar 17th, 2010, 08:23 AM

id get the police involved, the silly moo moo! it will all be okay and SS will see your a great mummy

jacs · Mar 17th, 2010, 08:51 AM

Just awful, especially with a baby to think about - how dare she take this special time away from you?

I would write down EVERYTHING you can remember about the harassment this woman has given you - dates/times/incidents/names of witnesses.
You should make a complaint before this escalates any further, and you will be asked for all of this sort of information.
Keep all the letters you get, and ask the neighbours to keep theirs, and date them.
When you see the SS person, just remain calm, this is clearly no more than a malicious call.

Let us know how you get on xx

lyre · Mar 17th, 2010, 09:32 AM

agree completely with jacs x

PregnantKez · Mar 17th, 2010, 10:04 AM

WOW what an absolute b*tch!!!!! I cannot believe some people. Don't let the thought of SS scare you, if there was anything wrong the HV would have warned them anyway, and I'm sure she was happy with you.

I'd make sure all the SS / police know exactly what she's doing, because you never know what people like that are capable of, will probably take some stress off you too. At least you have the other neighbours, its nice to have them around and they know how you feel. I wonder how many other people this nasty neighbour has harrassed

minnie83 · Mar 17th, 2010, 11:05 AM

how awful! Some people just aren't right in the head!

loopy_lou · Mar 17th, 2010, 11:13 AM

Wow that's now borderline harasment you can as the police for an anti social behaviour order?? This then might get the estate agent to move them out? Especialy if the other neighbours make complaints as well?

Mar 17th, 2010, 07:44 AM	#21
JRNH Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: wales Posts: 192	thats what i felt like doing yesterday but we've worked so hard to live here and my partner doesnt want to move even though he works long hours to keep us here and the kids are settled and we havent done anything wrong she would probably do the same thing to the people who moved in after us if we moved lol

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Mar 17th, 2010, 07:46 AM	#22
pinkbow Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 4,748	WTF is wrong with some people so sorry ur going thru this hun, but it will all be dropped but i agree file a harrassment claim on her!!

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Mar 17th, 2010, 08:04 AM	#23
Abz1982 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Aberdeen Posts: 3,963	I would go and speak to the police as she is harassing you by continually contacting others about you. She is causing you emotional distress, and you will probably have your others neighbours behind you in this.

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Mar 17th, 2010, 08:18 AM	#24
beancounter Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 2,921	Don't worry, social services will see right through that, we had a neighbour like that when I was growing up- what a pain! Hope she moves!

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Mar 17th, 2010, 08:23 AM	#25
emilyjade Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: notts uk Posts: 6,908	id get the police involved, the silly moo moo! it will all be okay and SS will see your a great mummy

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Mar 17th, 2010, 08:51 AM	#26
jacs Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 580	Just awful, especially with a baby to think about - how dare she take this special time away from you? I would write down EVERYTHING you can remember about the harassment this woman has given you - dates/times/incidents/names of witnesses. You should make a complaint before this escalates any further, and you will be asked for all of this sort of information. Keep all the letters you get, and ask the neighbours to keep theirs, and date them. When you see the SS person, just remain calm, this is clearly no more than a malicious call. Let us know how you get on xx

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Mar 17th, 2010, 09:32 AM	#27
lyre Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Posts: 735	agree completely with jacs x

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Mar 17th, 2010, 10:04 AM	#28
PregnantKez Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: North West UK Posts: 313	WOW what an absolute b*tch!!!!! I cannot believe some people. Don't let the thought of SS scare you, if there was anything wrong the HV would have warned them anyway, and I'm sure she was happy with you. I'd make sure all the SS / police know exactly what she's doing, because you never know what people like that are capable of, will probably take some stress off you too. At least you have the other neighbours, its nice to have them around and they know how you feel. I wonder how many other people this nasty neighbour has harrassed

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Mar 17th, 2010, 11:05 AM	#29
minnie83 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Merseyside Posts: 1,019	how awful! Some people just aren't right in the head!

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Mar 17th, 2010, 11:13 AM	#30
loopy_lou Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Cambridgeshire Posts: 2,656	Wow that's now borderline harasment you can as the police for an anti social behaviour order?? This then might get the estate agent to move them out? Especialy if the other neighbours make complaints as well?

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