I wont forget my 1st mothers day but not for good reasons - Page 3

elainegee · Mar 16th, 2010, 08:57 AM

i feel so sorry for you hun. do you love him? do you see things getting better?

i don't think i could put up with someone like him and personally would be better off on my own ( my ex was similar to this, he did work though but rarely interacted with our daughter and did nothing around the house etc etc) after 5 years of broken promises i took action and told him it was over. hardest thing to do with a child being in the middle but i was better off on my own as i didn't have a big lazy pig sitting in his own filth playing his computer grrrr. the love was gone as we did nothing together he would rather do his own thing.

you should be honest with your family, if they are strict they might give him a good kick up the arse as that is what he needs hun xxx

sobersadie · Mar 16th, 2010, 11:05 AM

Stuff that - not to be too harsh but get him the hell out of the house!! You can do so much better than a lazy, inconsiderate thief who treats you like a slave! Is that who you want bringing up and being a role model for your child? U wud be much better off leaving him and starting on your own with your LO. Things can't get much worse than they sound living with him and at least if your away from him you wont be getting money stole from you (and your LO!!).

Mize1982 · Mar 16th, 2010, 11:51 AM

i hear you ladies i really do, financially i would actually be better off with out him.

I do still love him but i'm not IN love with him, i think the love i have for him is purely from the fact that he is Myas dad and with out him I wouldnt have her iykwim.

i need to get tough and just do it but i am sooo poorly at the moment i dont have the energy for the fight that will happen, PLUS my fear about mya catching my cold and bug has come true, the poor little thing is so unhappy and un able to settel i have had her crying on me all day

suzib76 · Mar 16th, 2010, 11:57 AM

huge hugs to ya hun x
soryr you are having a shitty time of it, and hope Mya is better soon

Mar 16th, 2010, 08:57 AM	#21
elainegee Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: West of Scotland Posts: 1,861	i feel so sorry for you hun. do you love him? do you see things getting better? i don't think i could put up with someone like him and personally would be better off on my own ( my ex was similar to this, he did work though but rarely interacted with our daughter and did nothing around the house etc etc) after 5 years of broken promises i took action and told him it was over. hardest thing to do with a child being in the middle but i was better off on my own as i didn't have a big lazy pig sitting in his own filth playing his computer grrrr. the love was gone as we did nothing together he would rather do his own thing. you should be honest with your family, if they are strict they might give him a good kick up the arse as that is what he needs hun xxx

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Mar 16th, 2010, 11:05 AM	#22
sobersadie Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: East Kilbride Posts: 901	Stuff that - not to be too harsh but get him the hell out of the house!! You can do so much better than a lazy, inconsiderate thief who treats you like a slave! Is that who you want bringing up and being a role model for your child? U wud be much better off leaving him and starting on your own with your LO. Things can't get much worse than they sound living with him and at least if your away from him you wont be getting money stole from you (and your LO!!).

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Mar 16th, 2010, 11:51 AM	#23
Mize1982 Pregnant (Expecting) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Chessington, Surrey. Posts: 1,379	i hear you ladies i really do, financially i would actually be better off with out him. I do still love him but i'm not IN love with him, i think the love i have for him is purely from the fact that he is Myas dad and with out him I wouldnt have her iykwim. i need to get tough and just do it but i am sooo poorly at the moment i dont have the energy for the fight that will happen, PLUS my fear about mya catching my cold and bug has come true, the poor little thing is so unhappy and un able to settel i have had her crying on me all day

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Mar 16th, 2010, 11:57 AM	#24
suzib76 Pregnant (Expecting) BnB Addict Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 4,695	huge hugs to ya hun x soryr you are having a shitty time of it, and hope Mya is better soon

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