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Old Feb 21st, 2010, 09:25 AM   #41
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yup- no more for me. wanted to top myself for 3 weeks and i still haven't even bonded with her so add that to the huge guilt pile of the epic breast feeding failure and doesnt seem fair to put another one through having me as a mum.


 
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Old Feb 21st, 2010, 10:19 AM   #42
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yup- no more for me. wanted to top myself for 3 weeks and i still haven't even bonded with her so add that to the huge guilt pile of the epic breast feeding failure and doesnt seem fair to put another one through having me as a mum.
dont be so hard on urself! u shudnt think that, its only been 4 weeks and it such a shock to the system having a baby.

give urself time u will bond with ur lo and ule be a great mum


 
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Old Feb 21st, 2010, 15:20 PM   #43
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It did completely put me off but now saying that I am feeling broody, I just dont know if I could do the whole newborn stage again.


 
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Old Feb 22nd, 2010, 03:04 AM   #44
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It did completely put me off but now saying that I am feeling broody, I just dont know if I could do the whole newborn stage again.
No me neither. And Ruby, by most people's standards, was a total dream newborn, so goodness knows how I'd cope with a more tricky baby.


 
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Old Feb 22nd, 2010, 06:54 AM   #45
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compared to now i think the newborn stage was easier, zane was a tricky baby and still is but is so kind so ile end up with a devil baby next time lol


 
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Old Feb 27th, 2010, 04:10 AM   #46
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It did completely put me off but now saying that I am feeling broody, I just dont know if I could do the whole newborn stage again.
Having been thru all the stages before with my eldest, I gotta say that the teenage years have been the hardest for me lol! Elisha was so much easier when she was a baby compared with how she is now At least Evie doesnt answer back .... yet!!


 
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Old Feb 27th, 2010, 05:22 AM   #47
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I had a hard pregnancy and a traumatically horrid labour, so yeah/ I've been totally put off. Im finding motherhood really scary and i'm completely lost so I know I deff wont want anymore kids for a while yet... I guess I dunno how I feel in years to come but I really can't imagine me wanting to go through all of this again, however worth it Jacob is :-p


 
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