Did u treat ur 1st & last LOs differently? - Page 2

MoonMuffin · Feb 13th, 2010, 13:06 PM

Thats so sad

I feel so guilty when I have to let John cry (like when I have to pee or change Kathryn's diaper, I put him down but lately he hates being put down and crys!), No way I could listen to a baby cry all day, I'd go insane.

Gemma Simone · Feb 13th, 2010, 13:32 PM

Reading about how your aunt is with her LO has made me feel sad.

What is her husband like with him or is he the same?

jojo2605 · Feb 13th, 2010, 13:34 PM

I don't think the amount of things you buy for your LO should be judgement or justification for how much you love them - afteral there's so much out there they don't need so I wouldn't blame someone for being careful when choosing their purchases.

BUT what a baby does need is love, attention and affection and if she's not giving that, then that's really sad. I'd want to take him home with me and give him lots munches!!

Poor little fella!

**OmarsMum** · Feb 13th, 2010, 15:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemma Simone

Reading about how your aunt is with her LO has made me feel sad.

What is her husband like with him or is he the same?

He's not really bothered by his new boy. He just gives all his attention to his 3.5 yrs old boy! They just dont want their spoilt boy to feel jealous!

sobersadie · Feb 13th, 2010, 15:44 PM

Oh dear, that doesnt sound much fun for the baby. Im on my 3rd and i can honestly say i spend as much time plying etc with her as i did with my 1st and 2nd babies. The only thing i have done different is not went mad buying things that i now have learned i wont need! With experience u learn what babies will need and what they wont. Plus coz this is my 1st girl ive had to buy clothes and girly things as everyhing we had was for boys.

emilyjade · Feb 13th, 2010, 16:18 PM

i think thats awful how can u treat any child different

Feb 13th, 2010, 13:06 PM	#11
MoonMuffin Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Norwalk, CT Posts: 3,369	Thats so sad I feel so guilty when I have to let John cry (like when I have to pee or change Kathryn's diaper, I put him down but lately he hates being put down and crys!), No way I could listen to a baby cry all day, I'd go insane.

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Gemma Simone Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Reading, Berkshire Posts: 805	Reading about how your aunt is with her LO has made me feel sad. What is her husband like with him or is he the same?

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jojo2605 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Brummyland Posts: 2,580	I don't think the amount of things you buy for your LO should be judgement or justification for how much you love them - afteral there's so much out there they don't need so I wouldn't blame someone for being careful when choosing their purchases. BUT what a baby does need is love, attention and affection and if she's not giving that, then that's really sad. I'd want to take him home with me and give him lots munches!! Poor little fella!

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sobersadie Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: East Kilbride Posts: 901	Oh dear, that doesnt sound much fun for the baby. Im on my 3rd and i can honestly say i spend as much time plying etc with her as i did with my 1st and 2nd babies. The only thing i have done different is not went mad buying things that i now have learned i wont need! With experience u learn what babies will need and what they wont. Plus coz this is my 1st girl ive had to buy clothes and girly things as everyhing we had was for boys.

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Feb 13th, 2010, 16:18 PM	#16
emilyjade Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: notts uk Posts: 6,908	i think thats awful how can u treat any child different

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