Returning to work! Why does everyone have to know! - Page 2

Abz1982 · Jan 14th, 2010, 13:47 PM

Itsd driving me crazy to as we wont know till the end of march, as if OH is made redundant I will go back, if he isnt then I wont be. I have to be careful who I tell as I know a few people socially who know my boss.

aimee-lou · Jan 14th, 2010, 15:03 PM

A few people on here will know that I was bullied while I was pregnant by my boss. No big surprise that I'm not going back there.

As to whether or not I'm going back, people will insist on asking me this. Most people know that I had trouble, and yet people seem to think I'll be going back.

They ask 'Why did you have kids then, if you knew you'd have to go back?'

I know it's not ideal but I don't actually know anyone who doesn't work in some form (except my step-Dad but that's a sore point!) Even my 82 year old father works pt!!!! I am hoping that in the next few weeks (once we know what's going on with hubby) that I will be able to set myself up freelance in some way but this isn't certain. If necessary I will go and work in the local supermarket, but all I know is I'm not going back there!

AtomicPink · Jan 14th, 2010, 15:17 PM

ooooh i know...why are people so nosey? i cant go back due to alex having problems from being prem, and people keep digging to find out more !

its so rude!

Rebaby · Jan 15th, 2010, 06:05 AM

Argh, it's so annoying isn't it?

People have been asking me since i was very newly pregnant so i am well and truly sick of it now

It's like they can't bear to just let you enjoy your time off with your baby!

Seraphim · Jan 15th, 2010, 08:35 AM

I didn't realise it wasnt just about practicalities, but how I'd feel.
I'm dreading it - still cant decide what to do. Id rather be broke I think, but not sure if it'll be worse going back and fitting in if I tax max leave.

What was worse was ppl assuming I wouldn't go back.

Jan 14th, 2010, 13:47 PM	#11
Abz1982 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Aberdeen Posts: 3,963	Itsd driving me crazy to as we wont know till the end of march, as if OH is made redundant I will go back, if he isnt then I wont be. I have to be careful who I tell as I know a few people socially who know my boss.

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Jan 14th, 2010, 15:03 PM	#12
aimee-lou Other BnB Addict Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Norfolk - UK Posts: 6,176	A few people on here will know that I was bullied while I was pregnant by my boss. No big surprise that I'm not going back there. As to whether or not I'm going back, people will insist on asking me this. Most people know that I had trouble, and yet people seem to think I'll be going back. They ask 'Why did you have kids then, if you knew you'd have to go back?' I know it's not ideal but I don't actually know anyone who doesn't work in some form (except my step-Dad but that's a sore point!) Even my 82 year old father works pt!!!! I am hoping that in the next few weeks (once we know what's going on with hubby) that I will be able to set myself up freelance in some way but this isn't certain. If necessary I will go and work in the local supermarket, but all I know is I'm not going back there!

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Jan 14th, 2010, 15:17 PM	#13
AtomicPink Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 19,123	ooooh i know...why are people so nosey? i cant go back due to alex having problems from being prem, and people keep digging to find out more ! its so rude!

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Jan 15th, 2010, 06:05 AM	#14
Rebaby Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Manchester, UK Posts: 4,699	Argh, it's so annoying isn't it? People have been asking me since i was very newly pregnant so i am well and truly sick of it now It's like they can't bear to just let you enjoy your time off with your baby!

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Jan 15th, 2010, 08:35 AM	#15
Seraphim Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Dartmoor, Devon Posts: 7,082	I didn't realise it wasnt just about practicalities, but how I'd feel. I'm dreading it - still cant decide what to do. Id rather be broke I think, but not sure if it'll be worse going back and fitting in if I tax max leave. What was worse was ppl assuming I wouldn't go back.

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