Taylor sat on Dexter!

xTaylorsMummy · Nov 6th, 2009, 07:24 AM

oh my god..

My 20mth old sat on my 5week old! I was upstairs getting dressed and OH was down stairs putting clothes in dryer, Dexter was crying but hes due for a feed so OH left him for 2mins came back into room [literally its the next room] and Taylor was in the bouncer with him!

He seems fine now i think

and OH told taylor off! I have no idea what to do, i gave him mummy cuddles and he seems fine, had abit of bottle. She doesnt leave him alone, shes constantly trying to pick him up, stroke him, kiss him which i suppose is a good thing

.. i feel like a right bad mummy

sophie c · Nov 6th, 2009, 07:26 AM

aww hun its not your fault and your deffo not a bad mum!!! just keep and eye on him, im sure hes fine!!

xx

dali · Nov 6th, 2009, 07:28 AM

aww not your fault hun. its great that she loves him so much. just keep a close eye on her with him , and re enforce the need for her to be gentle

marley2580 · Nov 6th, 2009, 07:46 AM

Never leave them alone together, it only takes a split second for something to happen. I learned this last week when Kaya picked up Blythe and dropped her on the laminate floor! I left them for literally 10 seconds. Any time I need to leave them now, Blythe goes in the playpen, even if it's to answer the door/phone.

Don't mean to suggest you're doing anything wrong, but at 20/23 months they just don't understand.

milkmachine · Nov 6th, 2009, 07:52 AM

i left a 3 year old with faith to make a drink and the 3 year old bit faith so hard she had a mark the next day... NEVER leave two kids alone together. they really just dont get it.

xTaylorsMummy · Nov 6th, 2009, 15:13 PM

she wasnt sat on him like hurting, she was kneeling on the bouncer giving him "loves" like she was cuddling him. I deffently dont think she would hurt him on purpose

Samemka · Nov 6th, 2009, 15:16 PM

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Originally Posted by xTaylorsMummy

she wasnt sat on him like hurting, she was kneeling on the bouncer giving him "loves" like she was cuddling him. I deffently dont think she would hurt him on purpose

Yeah I'm sure she was just trying to cuddle him hun. My friends 18 month old tries to give his little 10 week old brother 'hugs' and sometimes that can v.quickly turn into a slap

They just don't realise at that age that they can hurt - but you're DEFINITELY not a bad mummy!!!!!!!!!

marley2580 · Nov 6th, 2009, 15:59 PM

THey never to it on purpose. Kaya was just trying to help when she dropped Blythe. They just don't understand

Nov 6th, 2009, 07:24 AM	#1
xTaylorsMummy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Leicester Posts: 887	Taylor sat on Dexter! oh my god.. My 20mth old sat on my 5week old! I was upstairs getting dressed and OH was down stairs putting clothes in dryer, Dexter was crying but hes due for a feed so OH left him for 2mins came back into room [literally its the next room] and Taylor was in the bouncer with him! He seems fine now i think and OH told taylor off! I have no idea what to do, i gave him mummy cuddles and he seems fine, had abit of bottle. She doesnt leave him alone, shes constantly trying to pick him up, stroke him, kiss him which i suppose is a good thing .. i feel like a right bad mummy

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Nov 6th, 2009, 07:26 AM	#2
sophie c Waiting To Try (WTT) BnB Addict Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: cardiff, wales Posts: 2,827	aww hun its not your fault and your deffo not a bad mum!!! just keep and eye on him, im sure hes fine!! xx

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Nov 6th, 2009, 07:28 AM	#3
dali Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: east sussex Posts: 1,575	aww not your fault hun. its great that she loves him so much. just keep a close eye on her with him , and re enforce the need for her to be gentle

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Nov 6th, 2009, 07:46 AM	#4
marley2580 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Forfar Posts: 6,098	Never leave them alone together, it only takes a split second for something to happen. I learned this last week when Kaya picked up Blythe and dropped her on the laminate floor! I left them for literally 10 seconds. Any time I need to leave them now, Blythe goes in the playpen, even if it's to answer the door/phone. Don't mean to suggest you're doing anything wrong, but at 20/23 months they just don't understand.

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Nov 6th, 2009, 07:52 AM	#5
milkmachine Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 2,450	i left a 3 year old with faith to make a drink and the 3 year old bit faith so hard she had a mark the next day... NEVER leave two kids alone together. they really just dont get it.

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Nov 6th, 2009, 15:13 PM	#6
xTaylorsMummy Pregnant (Expecting) Active BnB Member Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Leicester Posts: 887	she wasnt sat on him like hurting, she was kneeling on the bouncer giving him "loves" like she was cuddling him. I deffently dont think she would hurt him on purpose

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Nov 6th, 2009, 15:59 PM	#8
marley2580 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Forfar Posts: 6,098	THey never to it on purpose. Kaya was just trying to help when she dropped Blythe. They just don't understand

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