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Jul 3rd, 2009, 22:30 PM
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| | Tylers Mummy Active BnB Member
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| Aww no bless her! I hope she gets better soon! 
But like the other mums said, you really should see a doctor about the way you're feeling, because I was diagnosed with severe PND and the help I'm getting, although my ex is making it a million times worse, is really helping me. It doesn't make you happy or anything but it just helps you to get through you know?
If ever you need someone to speak to Im always here because I know what it's like to feel absolutely rubbish!!
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Jul 3rd, 2009, 22:32 PM
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| | Mommy of 3 boys BnB Addict
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| I'm so sorry You are not a terrible mom, try not to beat yourself up. YOu have just been through alot and aren't getting any break and now all of this. I really hope she is ok!!! | | | | Status: Online
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Jul 3rd, 2009, 22:47 PM
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| you're not terrible. Hugs for you and your little girl | | | | Status: Online
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Jul 3rd, 2009, 23:13 PM
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| | Tom's Mum ˚͜˚ BnB Addict
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| Hope she's ok | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 4th, 2009, 23:12 PM
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| | Mummy to a beautiful baby Active BnB Member
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| Hey everyone!!
Thanks for all the kind words, I will talk to my HV on Mon and I'll ask to be referred as soon as so I can start getting better lol
Molly is ok, she has PDA Persitent Artieral Duct, something to do with a tube or hole that connected the heart and the lungs, which should have closed after birth but hasn't which caused her to have the breathlessness, not feeding properly etc...
So she might need surgery, they'll either do the thing where they snake it through a vien in the thigh? or something, or they'll do invasive surgery and do it that way, neither requires her to be opened up so thats ok!
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Jul 5th, 2009, 05:19 AM
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| | Mom of 1 beautiful boy Active BnB Member
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| Wow, that's scary. Glad they've diagnosed and are going to treat her soon. She's a cutie 
My heart goes out to you. I didn't get PND but I've suffered from depression for years and my meds were actually raised during my pregnancy because I had a very real fear that I'd become severely depressed after Darwin was born. It worked, and I'm so thankful it did. PND (any depression) is caused by a chemical/hormonal imbalance, NOTHING that's even remotely your fault, and you are definitely not a bad mother! I'm glad you're going to see the doc, hopefully things will be much better soon. | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 5th, 2009, 09:34 AM
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| | mummy to 4 princes BnB Addict
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| glad you know what it is now and i hope shes feeling better soon xxx | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 8th, 2009, 20:17 PM
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| | Tylers Mummy Active BnB Member
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| I'm glad they've got her diagnosed and know what they're dealing with now. I hope the sugery goes ok. Lots of to both of you x | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 8th, 2009, 20:25 PM
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| hun, hope she recovers soon. Take care of yourself too xx | | | | Status: Offline
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Jul 8th, 2009, 20:31 PM
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| Hope she gets better soon hun
You're not a bad mum for feeling that way | | | | Status: Offline
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