Hey everyone, Molly May is in the hospital - Page 2

Jade--x · Jul 3rd, 2009, 17:30 PM

Aww no bless her! I hope she gets better soon!

But like the other mums said, you really should see a doctor about the way you're feeling, because I was diagnosed with severe PND and the help I'm getting, although my ex is making it a million times worse, is really helping me. It doesn't make you happy or anything but it just helps you to get through you know?

If ever you need someone to speak to Im always here because I know what it's like to feel absolutely rubbish!!

x

mommyof3co · Jul 3rd, 2009, 17:32 PM

I'm so sorry

You are not a terrible mom, try not to beat yourself up. YOu have just been through alot and aren't getting any break and now all of this. I really hope she is ok!!!

beancounter · Jul 3rd, 2009, 17:47 PM

you're not terrible. Hugs for you and your little girl

xJG30 · Jul 3rd, 2009, 18:13 PM

Hope she's ok

Mama1985 · Jul 4th, 2009, 18:12 PM

Hey everyone!!
Thanks for all the kind words, I will talk to my HV on Mon and I'll ask to be referred as soon as so I can start getting better lol

Molly is ok, she has PDA Persitent Artieral Duct, something to do with a tube or hole that connected the heart and the lungs, which should have closed after birth but hasn't which caused her to have the breathlessness, not feeding properly etc...

So she might need surgery, they'll either do the thing where they snake it through a vien in the thigh? or something, or they'll do invasive surgery and do it that way, neither requires her to be opened up so thats ok!

thanks again everyone!

Hope22 · Jul 5th, 2009, 00:19 AM

Wow, that's scary. Glad they've diagnosed and are going to treat her soon. She's a cutie

My heart goes out to you. I didn't get PND but I've suffered from depression for years and my meds were actually raised during my pregnancy because I had a very real fear that I'd become severely depressed after Darwin was born. It worked, and I'm so thankful it did. PND (any depression) is caused by a chemical/hormonal imbalance, NOTHING that's even remotely your fault, and you are definitely not a bad mother! I'm glad you're going to see the doc, hopefully things will be much better soon.

louise1302 · Jul 5th, 2009, 04:34 AM

glad you know what it is now and i hope shes feeling better soon xxx

Jade--x · Jul 8th, 2009, 15:17 PM

I'm glad they've got her diagnosed and know what they're dealing with now. I hope the sugery goes ok. Lots of

to both of you x

x-amy-x · Jul 8th, 2009, 15:25 PM

hun, hope she recovers soon. Take care of yourself too xx

JayleighAnn · Jul 8th, 2009, 15:31 PM

Hope she gets better soon hun

You're not a bad mum for feeling that way

Jul 3rd, 2009, 17:30 PM	#11
Jade--x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Derby Posts: 667	Aww no bless her! I hope she gets better soon! But like the other mums said, you really should see a doctor about the way you're feeling, because I was diagnosed with severe PND and the help I'm getting, although my ex is making it a million times worse, is really helping me. It doesn't make you happy or anything but it just helps you to get through you know? If ever you need someone to speak to Im always here because I know what it's like to feel absolutely rubbish!! x

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Jul 3rd, 2009, 17:32 PM	#12
mommyof3co Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Waxahachie, TX Posts: 10,076	I'm so sorry You are not a terrible mom, try not to beat yourself up. YOu have just been through alot and aren't getting any break and now all of this. I really hope she is ok!!!

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Jul 3rd, 2009, 17:47 PM	#13
beancounter Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 2,921	you're not terrible. Hugs for you and your little girl

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Jul 3rd, 2009, 18:13 PM	#14
xJG30 Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Nottingham Posts: 18,376	Hope she's ok

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Jul 4th, 2009, 18:12 PM	#15
Mama1985 Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Essex Posts: 222	Hey everyone!! Thanks for all the kind words, I will talk to my HV on Mon and I'll ask to be referred as soon as so I can start getting better lol Molly is ok, she has PDA Persitent Artieral Duct, something to do with a tube or hole that connected the heart and the lungs, which should have closed after birth but hasn't which caused her to have the breathlessness, not feeding properly etc... So she might need surgery, they'll either do the thing where they snake it through a vien in the thigh? or something, or they'll do invasive surgery and do it that way, neither requires her to be opened up so thats ok! thanks again everyone!

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Jul 5th, 2009, 00:19 AM	#16
Hope22 Mum (Mom) Chat Happy BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Peterborough, Canada Posts: 1,037	Wow, that's scary. Glad they've diagnosed and are going to treat her soon. She's a cutie My heart goes out to you. I didn't get PND but I've suffered from depression for years and my meds were actually raised during my pregnancy because I had a very real fear that I'd become severely depressed after Darwin was born. It worked, and I'm so thankful it did. PND (any depression) is caused by a chemical/hormonal imbalance, NOTHING that's even remotely your fault, and you are definitely not a bad mother! I'm glad you're going to see the doc, hopefully things will be much better soon.

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Jul 5th, 2009, 04:34 AM	#17
louise1302 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: manchester,uk Posts: 6,575	glad you know what it is now and i hope shes feeling better soon xxx

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Jul 8th, 2009, 15:17 PM	#18
Jade--x Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Derby Posts: 667	I'm glad they've got her diagnosed and know what they're dealing with now. I hope the sugery goes ok. Lots of to both of you x

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Jul 8th, 2009, 15:25 PM	#19
x-amy-x Mum (Mom) BnB Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Teesside, UK Posts: 13,809	hun, hope she recovers soon. Take care of yourself too xx

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Jul 8th, 2009, 15:31 PM	#20
JayleighAnn Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Leicester, UK Posts: 4,182	Hope she gets better soon hun You're not a bad mum for feeling that way

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