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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 10:56 AM   #1
Laura--x
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Dont you just hate...


People telling you what to do with your baby!!

Im SO fedup of everyone down ohs telling me i should stop cuddling her so much because she'll get used to it and won't settle on her own.

If i wanna sit there and cuddle my baby i will! ATM she has no problem with settling on her own, shes a really good baby and will sleep anywhere!

Im fedup of all the ' ohhhh shes spoilt' and ' id stop that now if i was you'!

Just let me do what i want to do !!!


 
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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 10:58 AM   #2
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trust me hun!! I am beyond sick of it!!!


 
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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 11:01 AM   #3
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I know what u mean... this morning my neighbour said I need to 'let go' a bit coz I mentioned that I wouldn't want anyone else to look after DD for even an hour (apart from OH). Mind your own business!!!

You know whats best for your baby


 
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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 13:31 PM   #4
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It bugs the crap outta me when people do this! I'm constantly being told what to do with Jack, half the time they give conflicting advice anyway! people really need to mind their own damn business!


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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 13:34 PM   #5
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OMG it makes me sooooo angry - esp my MIL - she is always saying that I'm spoiling him. And I HATE the way she always insists he has wind and rubs his back up and down - quickly and roughly....no he hasn't got wind!!! He just wants a quick cuddle with his mummy or is stretching! - I KNOW MY BABY - Back off lady!


 
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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 13:39 PM   #6
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Yeah I get this, sometimes I can understand people are trying to be helpful but I want to do things my own way. For example, me and OH are fine with Joseph being in our bed sometimes so I don't see why it bothers everyone else! The one that really annoys me is certain relatives who have no children and don't ever plan to have children yet are full of handy advice! Funny that, as they have no experience of children anyway! xx


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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 13:47 PM   #7
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Know exactly what u mean hun!!
I just told em to do one!!


 
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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 13:54 PM   #8
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Oh i know what you mean! Family keep telling me that i shouldn't hold her so much and she'll get used to it and wont settle without me cuddling her. It always comments that begin with 'i'm telling you this at the start....' argh!


 
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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 15:03 PM   #9
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I hate it aswell, its hard for me as i still live with my OHs parents and everytime Adrhianna is crying hes like " bottle time" and always picks up on little things that are wrong or what she wants.

Get on my nerves, i feel for you toooooo


 
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Old Jun 15th, 2009, 15:05 PM   #10
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It really pisses me off, all I ever get is "you shouldn't spend that amount on her at xmas" or "she is not supposed to have that" its like ffs, my baby, my choice


 
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