Shocking, following on from ema's thread

A bookshelf is ridickulusly heavy and very silly of the woman to let her child roam free in any public place (Does she not know this country is full of horrible people who do terrible things).
When iam out, My kids are either by my side, In the buggy or on Reins!.

But when iam at home i do follow the if they hurt themselfs when i have told them a million times not to do that certain thing they will learn.
Finnley kept oppening my Cupboard door the other day , I told him a million times you will get your fingers trapped, I tapped his hand told him off and moved him away umteen times.
In the end he trapped his fingers and came over sobbing, I said to him "I told you that you would hurt yourself, Now you know why".
I think its tough love. xxx .

I let chloe hurt herself-- but that is a little extreme!!!