I want to slap my OH....

Deb_baby · Apr 5th, 2009, 11:19 AM

he hasn't helped with Megan for days! hasn't fed her,changed her not even spent time with her or made up bottles!

I'm really starting to hate him for it aswell i do all the feeds including night feeds, change her, play with her and soothe her when shes a bit grumpy, but at the moment i've got the flu and Megan kept being sick after feeds yesterday so this morning when she was due a feed i asked OH to feed her and got the reply of..."NO, i'm still tired from yesterday!" say what now?!!

He went to work from 3pm til 1am and went straight to bed when he got in, and he had the cheek to moan at me this afternoon when he was getting ready for work because i hadn't paired up his socks so he had to find a matching pair himself and he went in a big girly mood when i said "i'm not your mother..pair them yourself!"

want to slap him and let him know 2 of us made Megan not just me!

princess_bump · Apr 5th, 2009, 11:24 AM

oh sweetie hope he sorts himself out soon and helps

it must be so frustrating and upsetting that hes not helping, maybe a good heart to heart, tell him how you feel might help

x x

AppleBlossom · Apr 5th, 2009, 11:26 AM

know the feeling, my ex did nothing unless on the rare occasions when I had to ask him a few times. Grr!

mandy81 · Apr 5th, 2009, 11:52 AM

Men sometimes they really do need a slap,

Hope you feel better soon hun.

babystar · Apr 5th, 2009, 11:58 AM

vicky · Apr 5th, 2009, 14:40 PM

sit him down and have a chat with him hun, men don't sometimes realise how hard it is to look after a baby and do the house work.

danni2609 · Apr 5th, 2009, 15:10 PM

hunny i hope he sorts himself out soon

embojet · Apr 5th, 2009, 15:10 PM

Panda_Ally · Apr 5th, 2009, 16:48 PM

You have more patience than me hun - i would of slapped my OH already!!! Hopefully he will come round!!

emma_27 · Apr 5th, 2009, 17:33 PM

I know how you feel. My OH doesnt help out with Ellie either. I have to say he does nothing expect smile at her occasionally and thats about it. He did even less with Benn! Id try and have a word with him. Hope you have more luck than i did my OH says he wont do it and thats that bloody useless!

Apr 5th, 2009, 11:19 AM	#1
Deb_baby Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Aberdeen :) Posts: 913	I want to slap my OH.... he hasn't helped with Megan for days! hasn't fed her,changed her not even spent time with her or made up bottles! I'm really starting to hate him for it aswell i do all the feeds including night feeds, change her, play with her and soothe her when shes a bit grumpy, but at the moment i've got the flu and Megan kept being sick after feeds yesterday so this morning when she was due a feed i asked OH to feed her and got the reply of..."NO, i'm still tired from yesterday!" say what now?!! He went to work from 3pm til 1am and went straight to bed when he got in, and he had the cheek to moan at me this afternoon when he was getting ready for work because i hadn't paired up his socks so he had to find a matching pair himself and he went in a big girly mood when i said "i'm not your mother..pair them yourself!" want to slap him and let him know 2 of us made Megan not just me!

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Apr 5th, 2009, 11:24 AM	#2
princess_bump Mum (Mom) BnB Spammer Elite Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: England Posts: 31,453	oh sweetie hope he sorts himself out soon and helps it must be so frustrating and upsetting that hes not helping, maybe a good heart to heart, tell him how you feel might help x x

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AppleBlossom Mum (Mom) Active BnB Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Liverpool, UK Posts: 25,860	know the feeling, my ex did nothing unless on the rare occasions when I had to ask him a few times. Grr!

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mandy81 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: UK Posts: 7,071	Men sometimes they really do need a slap, Hope you feel better soon hun.

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vicky BnB Addict Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 3,448	sit him down and have a chat with him hun, men don't sometimes realise how hard it is to look after a baby and do the house work.
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danni2609 Mum (Mom) Inactive Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: cornwall Posts: 6,138	hunny i hope he sorts himself out soon

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Panda_Ally Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 7,392	You have more patience than me hun - i would of slapped my OH already!!! Hopefully he will come round!!

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Apr 5th, 2009, 17:33 PM	#10
emma_27 Mum (Mom) BnB Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: staffordshire with my lovely OH, Son and my cat Mikey Posts: 3,023	I know how you feel. My OH doesnt help out with Ellie either. I have to say he does nothing expect smile at her occasionally and thats about it. He did even less with Benn! Id try and have a word with him. Hope you have more luck than i did my OH says he wont do it and thats that bloody useless!

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