Well it looks like im joining you girls..

I am now single! For the better.. but i am not worried about being a single mum at all, whether that will change or not i dont know. But i got good family support and i am confident i can do it on my own.

Selfish as it may sound im looking forward to having all the special moments to myself and i will smile knowing because of what my ex did he is missing out and i hope he regrets it for the rest of his life!

I hope all you other single mums and mums to be are coping ok :)

Hi didnt want 2 read and run just wanted to say i love your attitude and i think your LO is very lucky 2 have someone like you waiting for them, your ex isnt worth it and you know it.

good luck with every thing x

Oh that is such a good attitude to have!! Its easier to approach it all that way :)

I know exactly what you mean about the special moments!!

In the morning, Maya is just so snuggly in her lil babygrow & fluffy hair. I take her into my bed & we have big cuddles. I love it & smile like you because my knob of an ex is missing out on the greatest thing ever!!

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Way to gooo girl..... I am feeling confident too... my ex is the one that is missing out cos he as been an idiot and stressed me out to hell during the marjority of my pregnancy and I am so chilled now I just ignore all his pleading e-mails and texts which are generally full of bull s**t...

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go girl!! did he cheat? we dont need the stress of it x

go girl!! did he cheat? we dont need the stress of it x

he did more than cheat.. lol hes been seeing my 'best friend' for the past 9months and got her pregnant and caught an std than he could of easily given to me and hurt his unborn child. I dont think it gets much worse than that, He doesnt deserve me or his son and all its made me is a stronger person and i love my son so much more already. :)

Just wanted to say I think you are incredible and your son is a very lucky boy, because he is going to have you for his mum :cloud9:

His loss, hun... good on you. Good luck,too.

Good for you!!

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Ahh hun, I'm here if you fancy a chat as I've got a similar situation?

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Didn't expect to see you here...the one area where we don't when others join! :)
Good luck!

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Didn't expect to see you here...the one area where we don't when others join! :)
Good luck!

Didnt think i would ever be here myself either! But as i said.. its for the better :)

Well done on being so strong :D

Well done for being so positive for your child!! i often wonder what goes through mens heads!! In years to come he will regret his decision so much and then you can stick 2 fingers up at him!!

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sorry to hear hes done that to you hun!! sounds like your better off without him!! :hug:

Exactly the same attitude i would have girl,

I don t do none of this " oh lets work through it " , even if it wasn t your best friend and she didn t get pregnant . Once there as been infedility it would never be the same.

Great attitude, some times the pregnancy hormones can make us women go soft but this is a case when head would rule over everything.

Good Luck and Enjoy, you sound like a strong girl which is what gets you further in life.